Could Things Be Any Harder?

I dont even know a world that could explain the way that this Christmas is turning out. My parents, I can't even explain it! I feel so horrible for how everyone is so sad and nothing is turning out right. My mom, she is going absolutely nuts. I dont know what to do. Her family called and said that they were coming up today and my mom went nuts because she had to go and buy gifts for them, and then they called and said they aren't coming! How selfish is that? She worked so hard for nothing! My mom is my hero this Christmas. She has been there for everyone and has went through her own struggles at the same time. My aunt isn't having a good Christmas and its effected our whole family. But my mom, through all of her struggles and her own hurts, has been there for my aunt, grandmother, and me! Well not really me, because I really haven't opened up to her about whats making me so mad. I just feel like Christmas isn't the same anymore. Since my grandmother died last year, we didnt have anywhere to go on Christmas eve, so my mom's side came here last year, and now this year, we have nothing. And then on Christmas Day, since everyone on that side of the family is pretty much upset and not really in the spirit, its not going to be the same...I just want my family to be happy again, and I want Christmas to be normal!