The Third Victim

Last night, my plan was to work on my paper and to get it done. Well, there is this thing called facebook that distracted me for three hours. What distracted me though was one of my "friend's" facebook page. He wrote a note on his page about his trip home during Thanksgiving break. He found out that his ex girlfriend whom was pregnant had an abortion while he was away at school. She never told him, or even asked him how he felt about it. After reading his note, I could tell how much he was hurt and how angry he was, which he has every right to have these feelings. I then went to his page and noticed that he posted a new picture. The picture was of his ex girlfriend and it was titled "Murderer". Now, I have to be honest. If I were this girl, I would not want my picture on his facebook entitled murderer. It was hard to not just completely go off on him and ask him what the heck he was thinking! He had every right to be angry and upset, but she is also going to go through so much. Anyways, this post is not of my anger rampage. What I liked the most about the connversation that he and I had was that he was so open. He made a good point when he said that he as the father had no rights in this. Another point that I have in writing this blog is that everyone would pray for him as well. That he will take this anger and frustration and use it for good and would be able to heal from this in time.