Rationalizing With The Unrational
I thought about this saying a lot today. I have finally been introduced to middle school drama at the College level. It makes me laugh because of how ridiculous it is. For one, I cannot stand watching people hurt others and them get away with it. It is something that just drives me crazy. And now, I am one of those that ended up getting hurt. I have had no problems as far as drama goes this entire time at Huntington, and now it starts. It was hard not to just go off and express how I truly felt about things. I tried talking it out with this person, and they continuously kept blaming everything on me. Don't get me wrong, after she explained some things I understood that there were areas in which I did wrong, but not all that she was saying. And of course, she had done nothing. It hurt so badly to know that there was nothing that I could do or say that would really change her mind. Not only this, but she has gone behind my back to others and told them how the entire problem has been me. She is wanting attention more than what any of us can give her. It is as if she lives in a constant pity party that somehow makes her happy. This semester, a goal of mine has been to work on my optimism and my frame of mind as far as that whole issue goes. This has definetely been a test, and I am not one hundred percent sure if I have passed this. I know that there were times that I got down and upset today, but the reactions could have been a lot worse? So, after reading this, I hope that all of you pray for this situation and for both of us to be more positive and mature about this.
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